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Is dating after divorce as magical as it seems? Yes, obviously. Everything is perfect, all the time. … Jokes aside, dating after our divorces has been anything but “normal.” Divorce and infidelity change you in a lot of ways. Maybe our dating lives were different due to our divorces, or maybe it’s just because we’re a little older and wiser now. Wh…
 
Ummm… We don’t have anything to talk about. Maybe it’s just us, but after two years stuck inside with nothing to do and no one to see, we feel just a little bit dumber. This pandemic has been HARD and sometimes the urge strikes to start over with a blank slate. All the uncertainty in the world is difficult, but maybe—just maybe—this is the golden o…
 
Are we in the Era of Karens? There is a phenomenon of social media where everyone thinks everyone else wants to hear their opinions. Self-righteousness is rampant and people are deriving a sense of identity from being “right” all the time. So what do we do about these people that feel entitled to comment on our lives?? (Sorry to all the great women…
 
2021 is finally over and we could not be more thankful. It was a really shitty year in a lot of ways, no doubt… but that doesn’t mean we aren’t getting our hopes up for 2022! We are so over the struggle, aren’t you? The way we see it, our problems are only as big as we make them… so let’s choose peace this year. Let’s choose a better perspective. G…
 
Have you ever been told that you’re “too sensitive”? Are you wondering how to develop some thick skin? To be honest, we don’t think sensitivity is all that bad; your sensitivity might even be your greatest asset. Being sensitive is only a problem if you’re making everything about yourself. Are you taking everything personally, or do you allow for o…
 
Danny saw a post on Instagram about learning to be okay when you don’t get invited to something, and we wanted to chat a little about it. As humans, we often take things a little too personally, and it can really be exhausting. Let’s be honest: it’s not all about you. Sometimes, it’s just not that serious. Learn to be okay with not being invited [1…
 
As the year comes to a close, there is a lot of messaging to keep going, to push through—to push harder, even. We’d like to offer up another perspective: chill the f*ck out. Jokes aside, we like to use December as a month to reflect on the past year and prepare for the next. Want to perform a 2021 audit? Here’s how we do it. https://bit.ly/2021audi…
 
Money has the potential to make or break relationships… so when is the right time to start talking about it in your relationship? The way we see it, there’s no rush. There’s a big difference between casual dating and beginning to build a life together. As in anything, clear and honest communication should always be at the forefront. How soon is too…
 
We had a listener ask the question: should you start a business with a friend? And while this might sound funny coming from us, our answer is a resounding HELL NO! We might seem like the dream team now, but we’ve both had some failed business partnerships in the past that met sticky ends. But if you’re really considering it, there are a few questio…
 
How do you know when the time is right to level up? And when the time is right, how do you get there? Wanting is really easy, but it’s the doing that’s hard. Jill and Danny have felt “ready” to level up many times in their businesses, but it wasn’t until recently that their actions started matching their words. Are you ready? How Jill decided it wa…
 
Danny is in the process of adopting a puppy, and while we aren’t usually over-thinkers, this time feels different. So how do we overcome it? Wether it’s what to eat for dinner or quitting your soul-crushing job, overthinking and indecision hurts. Protecting yourself from making the “wrong” decision isn’t going to prevent any pain. So trust your gut…
 
Let’s normalize taking a break. Our society focuses heavily on constant productivity and hustling 24/7 but let’s be honest, it’s just not sustainable! Sometimes your creative well dries up or you just need a little more rest, and that’s normal. If you don’t make time for yourself, the universe might just force it upon you. Soooo… let’s just all tak…
 
Are you a people-pleaser? Many women are, and unfortunately it seems to be a trait passed down through generations. Maybe your people-pleasing is rooted in good intentions, but we think it’s kind of selfish. If you’re always worried about making everyone else happy, you’re never going to find happiness for yourself. It’s time to take back that powe…
 
Ever heard of Filter Anxiety? Showing your face without a filter can be down right terrifying—especially for those of us that are getting older. We try to love our own faces but let’s be honest, sometimes we can look and feel like shit, and a filter takes away a little bit of the sting. Is using a filter ethical? Are we obligated to show the world …
 
Jill has over a decade of experience running an online business, and she has productivity down to a science. Life is full of distractions, so if you want to master your productivity levels—all while cutting down on stress—you have to get hyper focused on what really matters. The value of batching [4:40] Understanding your own best creative time [10…
 
Danny J and her good friend Ashly Rae sat down in our Tulum studio to talk about living in alignment with your true self and embodying your core values. We are all born with an innate knowing of who we are. You know, you know, you know. You’ve always known. Ashly thinks its about time we all get back to that. @todaywithashlyrae Join The Becoming on…
 
Danny J is an expert of living a nomadic life. After traveling to over 35 countries, driving around the US in an RV for a year, and living out of suitcase for almost 3 years… well, she has a few pointers. If you’ve ever felt the travel bug or if you’ve wondered what it would be like to live the Nomad Lifestyle, give this episode a listen. Everyone …
 
2020 was a crazy fucking year. Thousands of people were essentially told by the government that their careers and livelihoods were nonessential and unimportant. Total mind-fuck. So it makes a lot of sense that even as the world re-opens, your confidence might be completely shattered. We get it. Want to know a secret? You ARE essential, and what you…
 
“Let whoever think whatever.” When it comes to showing up authentically, whether online or in our real lives, it’s a lot easier said than done. Intellectually, we understand that we can’t control what other people think. We know we should just be our true selves. But in reality, it takes a lot of courage! Vulnerability is scary, but if you want to …
 
Let’s be honest, there’s a lot to be angry about in this world. But what good does your anger actually do? Sure, it can feel good to have something to fight for, but are you making your own life happier? Are you changing the world in a positive way? Your anger can feel right, but its often holding you back in more ways than one. We’re firm believer…
 
Can you do ALL the things? Sure! But there’s one major caveat: you can’t do them all at once. There will always be more things to do, and yes, you probably “should” do a lot, but it’s not possible to do it all. And when you expect that level of perfection from yourself, you are unwittingly setting yourself up for failure. At the end of the day, you…
 
Could someone really not be “ready” for a relationship, or is that just code for not being into you? And is it a bad idea to get involved with someone who says they aren’t quite ready? When it comes to matters of the heart, it all comes down to trust: it really is the only thing we have control over. Trust what others tell you, and trust yourself t…
 
Body insecurity might be one of the most universal feelings women experience—and hey, men aren’t exempt either. Society places a lot of importance on the way we look, and the language we use to talk about our bodies often skews towards toxicity. A body is just a body. It’s not inherently good, nor inherently bad. Insecurities plague almost everyone…
 
Time is a luxury, one that many people say they can’t afford. But we’d like to argue that time is a luxury you can’t afford to ignore. If 2020 taught us anything, it’s that if you ignore things when they get bad, life will find a way to force you to take some time. Danny-J had a hell of a year, and at this point is an expert on taking time out to t…
 
It’s often said that the things you’re most sensitive about, or the things that you’re most afraid of are the things that tend to show up over and over again. If you’re always worried about your forehead, or your cluttered home, or your brand new business… chances are, you’re leaving the door wide open for the peanut gallery to come in and make sna…
 
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