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Each episode addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting philosophy. Janet is a respected parenting adviser, author, and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create relationships of respect, trust, and love. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Chi ...
 
Welcome to Upbringing. We’re Hannah and Kelty - twins, mothers and works-in-progress. Upbringing is a movement that empowers parents to grow up alongside their kids for sanity and social change. Through this podcast, speaking and coaching, we focus on our personal work as parents- the awareness, mindset and approach needed to raise amazing kids while ALSO getting shit done. Join us to radically redefine kids’ resistance as a magical opportunity to nurture skills and values like consent, non- ...
 
As a parent, do you ever wish someone could just whisper some realistic and trustworthy support in your ear? And not make you feel awful for not having all the answers? Well, that’s what I’m here for. I'm Dr. Aliza Pressman, developmental psychologist, parent educator, asst. clinical professor, and co-founder of both Mount Sinai Parenting Center and SeedlingsGroup. And I'm a mom... trying to raise two good humans myself, so I'm in this with you! In each episode, we'll go deep (but brief) wit ...
 
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A parent is concerned that her 2.5-year-old won’t say hello or goodbye to adults, including people he’s familiar with like neighbors and teachers. This mom says that she's tried to encourage her son's manners through modeling. She also once coaxed him to say goodbye to his teacher, but he refused. Since that time, he's become even more resistant an…
 
Today we kick off our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this week: - 5 year old’s anger turning physical - Parent gets physically pummeled during kids’ tantrums- 2.5 year old being bossy and demanding- 5 year old flips out when limits are …
 
Raising Good Humans and The Skinny Confidential talk about when becoming new parents, parenting styles, the mother body and other reflections on the birth of parenthood. www.oseamalibu.com/raisinggoodhumans for $10 off your first purchase of $50 or more. Free shipping for US orders of $75+, and free samples with every order. www.vistaprint.com/huma…
 
In this solo episode Dr. Aliza answers listener questions. www.Vistaprint.com/HUMANS to get started on your unregiftable gift! www.OseaMalibu.com/RAISINGGOODHUMANS for $10 off your first purchase of $50 or more, Free shipping for US orders of $75+ and free samples with every order. Visit Gemmist and use code HUMANS20 to get 20% off your order plus …
 
Straight parents have gay kids too, so if you don’t think talking about gender, sexuality and family structure is important in general (which I do)— think about this: What if your child misinterpreted your silence for disapproval? What if they found themselves stuck between who they are and who they think you can love? And if you are of a certain a…
 
Before launching this next season, we wanted to highlight a handful of favorite podcasts we’ve been guests on recently. We speak with some amazing folks about Upbringing, our mission and approach in practicing powers beyond control when it comes to daily discipline with our kids! The Fresh Start Family show is hosted by husband and wife team Terry …
 
What is Co-Regulation and How do we co-regulate with our infants, children, and teens so that they become more self regulated with Dr. Claudia Gold. www.purple.com/humans to save 10% off any order of $200 or more. www.kiwico.com with code HUMANS to get 50% off your first month plus Free shipping on ANY crate line. And head to peanut.app.link/raisin…
 
Early childhood education specialist Mr. Chazz joins Janet to discuss the common challenges children face in preschool. Chazz is the current Educational Supervisor of 9 preschools, a passionate teacher who has interacted with thousands of children, and an inspiring coach for both parents and teachers. He shares strategies for effectively addressing…
 
Before launching this next season, we wanted to highlight a handful of favorite podcasts we’ve been guests on recently. We speak with some amazing folks about Upbringing, our mission and approach in practicing powers beyond control when it comes to daily discipline with our kids! The Balanced Parent is a top-rated podcast hosted by Dr. Laura Froyen…
 
Psychologist and Mindfulness Expert Dr. Shauna Shapiro gives concrete ways to support our children when our emotional resources are tapped out followed by listener q and a. www.hellorory.com/HUMANS to try out your personalized treatment for just $5. www.gemmist.com with code HUMANS at checkout for 20% off and free 2-day shipping. www.fxchocolate.co…
 
Before launching this next season, we wanted to highlight a handful of favorite podcasts we’ve been guests on recently. We speak with some amazing folks about Upbringing, our mission and approach in practicing powers beyond control when it comes to daily discipline with our kids! This week, we’re sharing our interview with Jen Lumanlan on the Your …
 
Highly sensitive children respond to their environment differently. Clinical Psychologist Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart is talking with Dr. Aliza about how to approach parenting highly sensitive children. www.purple.com/HUMANS for 10% off any order of $200 or more! www.gemmist.com with code HUMANS for 20% off and Free 2-day shipping! peanut.app.link/rais…
 
Confused and dismayed, a parent asks Janet for help with a bedtime pattern that has developed with her 3-year-old. Her daughter keeps changing her mind about being tucked in. Unable to please her child either way, this mom leaves the room, which causes her daughter to explode. Upset by the outburst of emotion, she soon returns. “As soon as I go bac…
 
Before launching this next season, we wanted to highlight a handful of favorite podcasts we’ve been guests on recently. We speak with some amazing folks about Upbringing, our mission and approach in practicing powers beyond control when it comes to daily discipline with our kids! Not Your Mother’s Podcast is a top-rated show hosted by Sonnet & Vero…
 
Janet Landsbury, author, parent educator and host of the podcast Unruffled talks about her journey with RIE parenting. www.FXChocolate.com with promo code HUMANS to get 20% off your first order! www.glossier.com/podcast/humans for 10% off your first order Download the Peanut app today at peanut.app.link/raisinggoodhumans Shownotes: www.janetlansbur…
 
A parent wants to get out of a cycle of bribing her 3.5-year old and writes to Janet for help. “It seems that in order to get him to do anything, I have to offer a reward, treat, or special outing.” If these strategies don’t work, she says, she will threaten to take something away. This mom admits that she is a people pleaser, so when she does set …
 
Before launching this next season of Upbringing, we’d like to share a handful of favorite podcast episodes we’ve been interviewed on recently. For the next few weeks, tune in as we connect with inspiring parenting communities about our radical mission to practice powers beyond control when it comes to daily discipline! Find the Magic is a top-rated…
 
Today's episode is all about cultivating empathy, from the underlying skills needed to the daily habits we can practice to raise empathetic kids in a world that has had a rapid decline in empathy. www.hellorory.com/HUMANS for a FREE consultation and get your first order for $5! www.cleancause.com with code HUMANS for 20% off your next purchase! www…
 
In response to a parent's question about her toddler's aggressive impulses toward her newborn sister, Janet suggests strategies for encouraging our children -- beginning in infancy-- to communicate their innermost thoughts, feelings and needs. This parent and her husband have followed Janet’s advice on siblings and believe they are “doing a decent …
 
We are discussing the opportunities for growth as parents and for our children and teens. This episode covers concrete tools to promote problem solving, goal setting, taking on challenges and collaboration from young children to teenagers. www.Buffy.co with code HUMANS for $20 off your comforter! www.CleanCause.com with code HUMANS for 20% off your…
 
Betheny Saltman, author of “Strange Situation: A Mother’s Journey Into The Science of Attachement”.joins this episode for a conversation about the science of attachment, and the personal journey we go through as we come to understand our own attachment patterns and experiences with motherhood. www.oseamalibu.com/raisinggoodhumans for $10 off your f…
 
A parent is distressed that his son says he doesn’t like, or is afraid of Black people, a sentiment that is abhorrent to him. "Worst of all," the dad writes, "he will say this when he sees Black neighbors." The dad realizes that his strong reactions may be making matters worse, but his son's statements are striking a particularly sensitive nerve. "…
 
New York Times best-selling children’s book author, Derrick Barnes. talking about affirming Black and Brown boys, the power or praise and the balance of high expectations and his own rituals and routines raising 4 sons. This episode also has a special reading of his book, “I Am Every Good Thing”! www.buffy.co and enter code HUMANS for $20 off your …
 
Dr. Janina Fisher, psychotherapist and trauma expert, talks about how to regulate our stressed nervous system because our children are dependent on our nervous system in order for them to regulate. That means rather than feel on edge or like curling up and going to sleep, we have to find a way to get out of our stress brain even under the current h…
 
A parent writes that her 5-year-old has never recovered from the arrival of her younger brother (now 3.5 yrs). “Since he was born, she has subjected him to physical violence and verbal taunting.” She describes her daughter as bright and strong-willed, and her son as gentle, loving and forgiving. She says she has tried everything to help her daughte…
 
Diving into the science of babies and parenting and talking about New York Times bestselling Author Dr. Tina Payne Bryson about her new book! This episode is lovingly brought to you by HealthyNest Links: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/611679/the-bottom-line-for-baby-by-tina-payne-bryson-phd/ https://www.tinabryson.com Produced by Dear Med…
 
Jennifer Garner and Dr. Aliza sorting out school at home plans, raising grateful kids and answering listener Q and A. www.healthybaby.com for the safest and softest diapers paired with quick and fun activities and a library of enlightened knowledge for today's parents! Show Notes: https://www.savethechildren.org/us/what-we-do/us-programs Onceuponaf…
 
A parent writes that she’s overwhelmed by her two girls constantly demanding her attention, following her around their home and calling “Mommy! Mommy!” even if they are in the same room. “It’s driving me mad,” she writes. “It’s like a dripping tap. It is getting to the point where I just want to scream.” This mom notices that the girls don’t have t…
 
Today we recap our podcast season and explore 10 ways we are attempting to parent for sanity and social change through our discipline. We laugh, we cry, we lean in… join us! Relevant Links: - Our Freedoms Model - Our RESIST Approach - Our Empowerments - Our Shop + the new Big Feelings Survival Guide! - Our Resources Page - Our Coaching page - Amber…
 
We are all trying to find ways to set up our home environment to promote more independent play to give our parenting some space and our children a chance to come up with all the cool things they can do when their play experience isn’t so heavily monitored and curated, with bank street educator and play advocate, Lizza Asia, MsED. This episode is lo…
 
Cognitive neuroscientist and President of Barnard College Dr. Sian Leah Beilock talks about how we can perform better under pressure, how we can come out of failures to get back in the game, using math to talk about motivating kids during homeschooling and the importance of self compassion… This episode is lovingly brought to you by www.healthynest…
 
Rosalia Rivera, an abuse prevention specialist and consent educator, joins Janet to outline how parents and caregivers can help prevent sexual abuse by educating the children in their lives about body safety, boundaries and consent. Rosalia is the mother of three young children and is herself a child sexual abuse survivor. She hosts the podcast “Ab…
 
Today we hear from a parent who is at the end of her rope with battles over escalating screen time with her two sons, age 6 and 10. How can we set limits without over-controlling, pulling the parent card or getting intense pushback to the rules? We explore power, control, attunement, independent play, family agreements, loving limits, and some alte…
 
Two families reach out to Janet for help because they are struggling to get work done at home. Separating from their young children causes whining, crying and tantrums, which in turn interrupts and frustrates the parents. One parent writes: ”My son has significant tantrums about why daddy has to work… I really can’t take the tantrums anymore every …
 
Today we hear from a parent who is exhausted from navigating the persistent frustrations, anger and big feelings of her spirited daughter. She worries about the possibility of her daughter ALWAYS being like this, as well as the impact of her big outbursts on the wellbeing and behavior of her younger brother. We explore temperaments, stress, kids’ b…
 
Science gives us hope for how we can help kids structure their day and frame challenging experiences so that they can do OK despite difficult experiences. Dr. Lisa Damour, clinical psychologist and New York Times best selling author of Untangled and Under Pressure, talks with Dr. Aliza about adaptive anxiety, routines, distractions, screen time and…
 
Today we hear from two parents whose partners are not taking on as much of the learning around kids’ development + brains, respectful parenting and positive discipline solutions as they are themselves. They struggle, like so many of us, to find a way to bring their partners and other caregivers into the work of growing up alongside their kids as we…
 
Dr. Aliza talks with Adele Diamond about Executive Function Skills- what they are and how to grow them through every day interactions from infant to adolescent. This episode is lovingly brought to you by www.healthynesting.com Show Notes: http://www.devcogneuro.com https://www.amazon.com/Joyful-Noise-Poems-Two-Voices-ebook/dp/B00BEFNXHC Produced by…
 
A parent hopes to encourage her 21-month old’s self-directed play by sitting with her in her play area observing, “ready to respond if she engages with me.” Lately, she says, her daughter has been asking for help with tasks she can do by herself, and also actively directing both she and her husband to perform various roles. “She wants us to play, a…
 
Today we hear from a parent whos kid has begun struggling with middle of the night wakeups, then bedtime transitioning, and now daytime apart from parents. We explore ways to lean into his big feelings and resist the urge to fix, minimize, explain away, judge or stop his fears -- but rather to listen, validatek acknowledge, relate to and slowly inn…
 
This episode walks through ways to parent through an anti racist lens, with nationally recognized anti bias-anti-racist educators Britt Hawthorne and Tiffany Jewell. This episode is lovingly brought to you by www.healthynesting.com SHOWNOTES britthawthorne.com Website: www.abarathome.com Webinar: https://www.crowdcast.io/e/anti-racist-parenting/1 S…
 
Dr. Jennifer Eberhart, author of the best-selling book “Biased: Uncovering the Hidden Prejudice That Shapes What We See, Think, and Do,” joins Janet to discuss how racial bias develops in the brain and creates disparities in our neighborhoods, schools, workplaces, and the criminal justice system. As the mother of three sons, Jennifer has also witne…
 
Today we hear from a parent whose daughter has been intensely rude to her, her mother and her new partner. We explore ways to look beneath behaviors, connect instead of correct, run the RESIST Approach in the moment, and build skills and connection together as a family. When we can help our kids attune to themselves, we are breaking cycles of cultu…
 
About Babies and Sleep: Professor Mark Blumberg, PhD explains what’s happening in your baby’s brain when they sleep and when those brains are ready to sleep through the night; plus Dr. Aliza answers listener Q and A’s with practical sleep guidance during infancy. This episode is lovingly brought to you by www.healthynesting.com Mark Blumberg, PhD C…
 
Today we hear from a parent who is concerned her 4 year old’s brain is wired to react and respond in fear and people pleasing because she has used shame in her parenting. Our answer: IT’S NEVER TOO LATE! We explore ways that can help repair our kids’ brains and our connection as we build skills, practice and grow up alongside our kids and one anoth…
 
A frustrated parent writes that her almost 7-year-old will not accept no for an answer. When she wants something, she will whine and ask repeatedly to get her way. Her daughter is so relentless that this mom eventually loses her patience. She ends up screaming, and her daughter ends up crying. “I must be addressing the situation wrong at the first …
 
A parent describes the stress her family has been experiencing over the past several months and believes her 4.5 year old son has been particularly affected. “He was in Montessori and becoming very independent. Little by little, we’ve seen a huge regression in his behavior.” She describes a number of issues where she sees her son regressing, includ…
 
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