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Each episode addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting philosophy. Janet is a respected parenting adviser, author, and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create relationships of respect, trust, and love. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Chi ...
 
Welcome to Upbringing. We’re Hannah and Kelty - twins, mothers and works-in-progress. Upbringing is a movement that empowers parents to grow up alongside their kids for sanity and social change. Through this podcast, speaking and coaching, we focus on our personal work as parents- the awareness, mindset and approach needed to raise amazing kids while ALSO getting shit done. Join us to radically redefine kids’ resistance as a magical opportunity to nurture skills and values like consent, non- ...
 
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ADHD and career coach Lynn Miner-Rosen is unique among counselors because her own life experience includes two children with ADHD, as well as her own mid-life diagnosis. In the face of severe personal crises, Lynn re-invented herself professionally time and again, and she uses these experiences to bring insight, empathy, and encouragement to both p…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Unconscious beliefs that limit our ability to support our kids - Kid saying their parent "sucks balls" when they don't get their way - 5 and 6yo constantly bickering + fighting - Our job in th…
 
Thanks for such a great LIVE Q&A! Grab a spot in our Spirited Kids Club for the month of JULY! BOOK 4 SMALL GROUP COACHING CALLS NOW >> Join the club for a weekly conversation with us (and seven other parents of spirited kids!) to realign your personal values with your daily parenting practices when it comes to supporting your kid’s big feelings + …
 
Thanks for such a great LIVE Q&A! Last chance to join our Spirited Kids Club for the month of JUNE! BOOK 4 SMALL GROUP COACHING CALLS NOW >> Join the club for a weekly conversation with us (and seven other parents of spirited kids!) to realign your personal values with your daily parenting practices when it comes to supporting your kid’s big feelin…
 
Janet discusses children's crucial need for boundaries and how our authentic responses can free kids up to create and explore. She shares a success story from a parent who says that her son began constantly demanding she draw pictures for him after she "made a rookie mistake” by drawing for him one time. From that moment on, her son became obsessed…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 4yo won't leave places without being carried - Loving follow-through feels like a failure or a punishment - 4yo full-time resistance and parent guilt - Parent feels hijacked by their nervous s…
 
A parent is concerned about the negative, judgmental comments her parents and in-laws make about her children’s behavior and their parenting. She writes that she and her husband try to implement Janet’s advice (with a mix of Montessori). While she says she isn’t personally offended by their old school opinions, she does worry about “the confusing, …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 2 yo high five pounding everything, including baby - 3 + 5 yo constantly hitting and hurting each other - Our instinct, goals and roles to support sibling conflict - 3 yo growling at babies at…
 
A parent describes the past year as “brutal” and lists a series of traumatic life events. “I am not okay,” she admits, saying she doesn’t have the energy to remain unruffled when dealing with her kids and feels that she is failing them. While this mom is taking all the right steps to restore herself and find balance in her life, she wonders if Jane…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid pinching when dysregulated or a limit is set - 5 yo power struggles, quick to anger + snap at parent - Kid like a volcano - 9 yo boy screams in parent's face - Parents feeling triggered by…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid won't brush hair before appointment - Kid telling mom to "be happy" when she isn't - 6 yo HATES the word "No", pushes back on limits - 2 yo holding food in cheeks + resisting swallowing - …
 
Pediatric urologist Dr. Steven Hodges joins Janet to address the most common questions parents have about children’s urinary and bowel problems. They discuss the physical and psychological reasons that challenges occur, what parents should look out for, and the practical steps we can take to both treat issues and prevent them from happening in the …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Alignment as a progressive parent - Feeling triggered a parent - Kid won't give up their pacifier habit - How to build collaboration skills w/ kids - Problematic caregivers - Apologizing + cir…
 
A parent feels drained by her 5-year-old's extreme emotional reactions to even the most minor disappointments. While she and her husband encourage both their children to express all their feelings, their son has recently begun "to jump to a level 100 in tears the instant he gets frustrated or isn't given what he wants." His sobbing, screaming, and …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - What is parenting for sanity + social change? - Self-care to then care for our kids - Transition issues - our expectations vs lack of skills - Parent struggling to leave 8 mo with caregiver - …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 8 mo awake 2 hrs in middle of night - 2.5 yo won't stay in bed or room, runs out - How to help regulate kids' nervous systems - Morning routine total chaos, won't get ready - The power of the …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 8 yo despises and harms 4 yo sibling - Spirited kid has trouble making friends because they are so extroverted + loud - Parent struggles with staying the course with respectful parenting when …
 
A parent is concerned and torn about her 18-month-old daughter's swim lessons, because the toddler cries the entire time. This mom says: “I struggle with giving her bodily autonomy and respect while forcing her to take swim classes for her safety.” She is hoping Janet can help her reconcile her conflicted feelings.Thanks again to Ritual Vitamins fo…
 
Janet consults with a parent who says she feels utterly exasperated by her two young boys’ difficult behaviors. While she has a clear image of the kind of gentle, empathetic parent she wants to be, she says she loses her patience more often than not, and at the end of the day feels like a failure. “I’m so tired of the chaos in my home,” she writes,…
 
Expecting a baby or have one under a year old? Check out our new course, Right From The Start, which we launched this week! Only a couple days left to sign up BEFORE Sunday March 28! Get support in 9 modules of succinct 15 minute videos covering topics such as sleeping, feeding, bathing, diapering, sib relationships, big feelings, independent play …
 
Bethany Saltman’s fascinating new book “Strange Situation: A Mother’s Journey into the Science of Attachment” recounts her personal, 10-year journey investigating the scientific theory of attachment. As a new mother, Bethany was afraid she simply “wasn’t enough” for her baby. Eventually, through intensive research and self-examination, she realized…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - How kids learn about how to use power responsibly - Why welcoming kids' resistance and big feelings is vital work - Kid w/ potty regressions, misbehaving at school - Kid…
 
A parent is stumped that her almost 4-year-old says ‘no’ to everything -- daily transitions like going to or from school, attending a birthday party, even receiving a gift. “Sometimes it is as simple as an emphatic no,” she writes. “And sometimes this increases to more of a tantrum with crying and lots of no, no, no.” While she acknowledges and des…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast, which consists of the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Rigid 5 yo and how to “coach them” - Kid always runs away with big feels - Spirited 2.5 yo won’t let parents touch her - The ways our kids learn about consent - The RESIST Approach vs CO…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast, which consists of the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Highly sensitive 10 yo struggling to socialize with friends - Aggressive 4 yo misbehaving constantly - 6 yo big feelings around moving - 9 yo struggling to adjust to new school - Parent …
 
We loved connecting with Jen Lumanlan of Your Parenting Mojo about ways we can tame our triggers in the toughest moments with our kids. Learn more about the amazing elements of her upcoming workshop HERE! We are so excited to begin with you on March 1st, so make sure to register by Feb 28! A few topics we cover with Jen about taming triggers: - Are…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. We chat a few times in this episode about the Taming Your Triggers Workshop from our friend Jen of Your Parenting Mojo! Enrollment is open and the workshop begins March 1st! Join us to tame your triggers and break …
 
A parent shares understandable concerns about the effects of social distancing and isolation on her toddler's social development. Janet replies with reassuring observations about how children develop social intelligence and offers 5 tips for nurturing social-emotional health through this difficult time.Thanks again to NOOM for sponsoring this episo…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 4 yo smothering cat - Kid screaming and yelling, overwhelmed parent - Accidental shaming of kids - Kid only eating carbs - What is intuitive eating? - 3 kids under 4 hur…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - How we’re trying to raise non-fragile white kids - Connection vs control - Kid won’t say please + thank you - How to deal with grief in front of young kids - 2.5 yo hitt…
 
Leslie Priscilla Arreola-Hillebrand, founder of Latinx Parenting, joins Janet to discuss how the challenges parents face as products of our upbringing can make respectful, non-punitive parenting more difficult to achieve. Leslie shares how her experiences as an early childhood professional started her on a journey of self-reflection and healing, wh…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 5 yo bossing + controlling family talking to each other - 4 yo getting too rough with 5 yo + 2 yo sibs playing - 7 yo self-critical + "doesn't want to be alive anymore" …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - How to get a 6 yo to value his own opinion more - Spirited 5 yo acts out + won’t stop behaviors - 8 yo blows up when opposed, won’t self-reg, runs away - Our interview o…
 
A parent writes that for the past few weeks her son’s 3-year-old playmate will not share his toys. He cries, “That’s mine… he can’t play with it,” tries to take the toys back, and often has meltdowns. While she says her boy doesn’t seem particularly fazed by the behavior, the other boy’s mother is distressed and confused about expectations she shou…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Spirited 4 yo hates circling back - starts spitting - 17 mo frustrated and has no words to explain - 5 yo sassing parents all the time - 6 yo with low emotional intellig…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Parent struggling giving consequences - Kid spitting randomly all the time - Boundaries vs consequences - Should we mirror our kids' faces when they're upset? - 3yo push…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Spirited 5 yo won’t leave the house when its time - 5 yo antagonizes little siblings til she gets hurt - Boy get over-excited + mean on playdates - 19 mo keeps leaving t…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid is an extreme negotiator, loses it when boundaries are held - 3 yo laughs uncontrollably when parent states boundary - Kid has insomnia, parent struggling to stay re…
 
Janet shares a parent’s dramatic story recounting how she overcame her fear and doubt to allow her 6-year-old to express explosive emotions. In a wonderfully detailed e-mail to Janet, this mom describes a feeling of distance from her son and the respectful – albeit difficult, loud and sometimes scary – steps she took to welcome his “messy and uncom…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid saying “bad mommy” when parent gets home with no binary talk at home - Mom not at her best with new baby + 3 kids, how to show up? - Kids hurting each other and pare…
 
A parent consults with Janet about her son's struggles to interact socially with other kids. She feels he has no real friends and offers several examples where her son’s behavior becomes aggressive and unwelcome by playmates. He then becomes “sad and frustrated.” She writes: “As a mom, my heart breaks because I see him struggle to make a best frien…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid refuses to play alone, moves through activities too quickly - Supporting 5 month old with a demanding 3 year old - What are open-ended play opportunities? - Kids nee…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid refuses to brush knots out of hair - Constantly stressing + apologizing to kids - 19 mo won't won't brush teeth - Kids are rude, call each other dumb, stupid - 6 yo …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid refuses shots, medicine, tooth cleaning - Early parent lives with a parent who yells + shames their kids - Highly sensitive kid resources - 2 kids getting out of con…
 
Janet’s daughters share candid memories from their childhoods and consider how Janet's respectful parenting style has influenced their lives as toddlers, teens, and young adults. Using questions submitted to Janet's Facebook page as their guide, the sisters discuss intrinsic motivation, emotional health, independent play, sibling relationships, scr…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - When one kids’ big feelings freak out the other kids - When kids' big feelings freak out our partner or other caregiver - Kids complaining, negative attitudes, whining -…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 3 yo running away in parking lots + during transitions - 6 yo copying negative behaviors from school - 2.5 yo needs help understanding neuro-diverse cousins - Little boy…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 2.5 yo hitting + kicking dog - Parent struggling with reactivity - Kid saying violent things like “I want to cut your face” - Kid hitting + seeking sensory stimulation -…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid stonewalling + gaslighting parent - Toddler ignoring requests + expectations - Kid refusing to go to school - Kid won't sit for dinner, "hands out NO like candy" - K…
 
In this year-end episode, Janet shares what she describes as her most valuable advice for parents -- a mindset that brings clarity to our role in our children's lives, makes our job more enjoyable and successful, and may even offer us personal growth. Janet explains why and how this perspective works, offers practical examples, and touches on some …
 
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