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Each episode addresses a reader's parenting issue through the lens of Janet's respectful parenting philosophy. Janet is a respected parenting adviser, author, and consultant whose website (JanetLansbury.com) is visited by millions of readers annually. Her work informs, inspires, and supports caregivers of infants and toddlers across the globe, helping to create relationships of respect, trust, and love. Her best-selling books “No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline without Shame” and "Elevating Chi ...
 
Welcome to Upbringing. We’re Hannah and Kelty - twins, mothers and works-in-progress. Upbringing is a movement that empowers parents to grow up alongside their kids for sanity and social change. Through this podcast, speaking and coaching, we focus on our personal work as parents- the awareness, mindset and approach needed to raise amazing kids while ALSO getting shit done. Join us to radically redefine kids’ resistance as a magical opportunity to nurture skills and values like consent, non- ...
 
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Three different families write to Janet about their children's challenging behaviors. In one case, a 2.5-year-old has resumed an old behavior of hitting and scratching, “but this time around it feels like he’s doing it with more purpose.” Another parent says that when their 5-year-old exhibits rude behavior and is called on it, he gets angry and ac…
 
Spirited Kids Club small group coaching is open for enrollment in August + September! What you'll receive: ⚡️4 zoom coaching sessions with Hannah & Kelty ⚡️2 hrs per weekly session (video + audio recording emailed) ⚡️7 parents to commiserate + connect with LIVE ⚡️Resources, discounts + more! SKC small group coaching is for parents who: ✔️ Are raisi…
 
Cassandra Lane is an author, Editor-in-Chief of “LA Parent Magazine,” and a mother (something she vowed she would never be). She joins Janet to discuss her new book “We Are Bridges” in which her personal journey from a childhood of poverty and racism to motherhood is juxtaposed against the traumas and upheavals of her ancestors. Her artful storytel…
 
Reminder! >> SPIRITED KIDS CLUB SMALL GROUP COACHING ENROLLMENT IS OPEN FOR AUGUST! A few topics we covered in this Q&A: - Parent worried about their kid who has lots some of his “spiritedness” - Implicit vs explicit learning - When to push and encourage vs accept where kids are at? - Kids jumping on all the things - The downside to praising our ki…
 
Recently parents have written to Janet with concerns about their toddlers who are venturing back into the world post-Covid and seem afraid to interact with other children and adults. Several parents even use a similar description of their child seeming ‘frozen’ as they watch activity on a playground but refuse to join in. Janet offers some insight …
 
>> SPIRITED KIDS CLUB SMALL GROUP COACHING ENROLLMENT IS OPEN FOR AUGUST! - Kids’ personality types - worth analysis through the enneagram or Gretchen Rubin’s 4 tendencies? - 4yo too rough with little sib, constantly picking up - Teaching kids “consent”, modeling consent + boundary-setting, circling back when consent is broken - Inhibiting kids’ ph…
 
Our Right From The Start online course is almost closed for enrollment! We loved sitting down with Paula of The Way We Parent Podcast and New Paradigm Motherhood Instagram Account to and connect about ways we can support our older kids as we add a new baby to the family! Click here if you'd prefer to watch the interview! Our Right From The Start vi…
 
>> SPIRITED KIDS CLUB ENROLLMENT IS OPEN FOR JULY AND AUGUST! >> RIGHT FROM THE START BABY COURSE IS OPEN TIL WEDNESDAY JUNE 30TH! - Kelty's nightmare bedtime and how Anne of Green Gables saved it - Anne Shirley of Anne of Green Gables - Kevin Sullivan Movies - Jo March of Little Women - quote: "There are some natures too noble to curb, too lofty t…
 
A YES space is a gift to both children and their parents. It offers children ownership of a safe place that encourages play, learning, creativity, agency, and a strong sense of self. Parents get to enjoy one the great pleasures of parenting – observing their infant or toddler as they explore and master the world around them. Janet describes YES spa…
 
Our Right From The Start online course doors open TODAY! We loved sitting down with Jen Lumanlan of Your Parenting Mojo and chatting all things babies and new parenthood, whether it’s your first or fifth child! Our Right From The Start video course and community will bring you both the reassurance AND information you need in your baby’s first year …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - SPIRITED KIDS CLUB - 3 SPOTS LEFT IN JULY! - Parent struggling with time-outs and consequences - Kid won't go outside, struggling with transitions leaving the house - The incredible power of t…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Unconscious beliefs that limit our ability to support our kids - Kid saying their parent "sucks balls" when they don't get their way - 5 and 6yo constantly bickering + fighting - Our job in th…
 
ADHD and career coach Lynn Miner-Rosen is unique among counselors because her own life experience includes two children with ADHD, as well as her own mid-life diagnosis. In the face of severe personal crises, Lynn re-invented herself professionally time and again, and she uses these experiences to bring insight, empathy, and encouragement to both p…
 
Thanks for such a great LIVE Q&A! Grab a spot in our Spirited Kids Club for the month of JULY! BOOK 4 SMALL GROUP COACHING CALLS NOW >> Join the club for a weekly conversation with us (and seven other parents of spirited kids!) to realign your personal values with your daily parenting practices when it comes to supporting your kid’s big feelings + …
 
Thanks for such a great LIVE Q&A! Last chance to join our Spirited Kids Club for the month of JUNE! BOOK 4 SMALL GROUP COACHING CALLS NOW >> Join the club for a weekly conversation with us (and seven other parents of spirited kids!) to realign your personal values with your daily parenting practices when it comes to supporting your kid’s big feelin…
 
Janet discusses children's crucial need for boundaries and how our authentic responses can free kids up to create and explore. She shares a success story from a parent who says that her son began constantly demanding she draw pictures for him after she "made a rookie mistake” by drawing for him one time. From that moment on, her son became obsessed…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 4yo won't leave places without being carried - Loving follow-through feels like a failure or a punishment - 4yo full-time resistance and parent guilt - Parent feels hijacked by their nervous s…
 
A parent is concerned about the negative, judgmental comments her parents and in-laws make about her children’s behavior and their parenting. She writes that she and her husband try to implement Janet’s advice (with a mix of Montessori). While she says she isn’t personally offended by their old school opinions, she does worry about “the confusing, …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 2 yo high five pounding everything, including baby - 3 + 5 yo constantly hitting and hurting each other - Our instinct, goals and roles to support sibling conflict - 3 yo growling at babies at…
 
A parent describes the past year as “brutal” and lists a series of traumatic life events. “I am not okay,” she admits, saying she doesn’t have the energy to remain unruffled when dealing with her kids and feels that she is failing them. While this mom is taking all the right steps to restore herself and find balance in her life, she wonders if Jane…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid pinching when dysregulated or a limit is set - 5 yo power struggles, quick to anger + snap at parent - Kid like a volcano - 9 yo boy screams in parent's face - Parents feeling triggered by…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Kid won't brush hair before appointment - Kid telling mom to "be happy" when she isn't - 6 yo HATES the word "No", pushes back on limits - 2 yo holding food in cheeks + resisting swallowing - …
 
Pediatric urologist Dr. Steven Hodges joins Janet to address the most common questions parents have about children’s urinary and bowel problems. They discuss the physical and psychological reasons that challenges occur, what parents should look out for, and the practical steps we can take to both treat issues and prevent them from happening in the …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Alignment as a progressive parent - Feeling triggered a parent - Kid won't give up their pacifier habit - How to build collaboration skills w/ kids - Problematic caregivers - Apologizing + cir…
 
A parent feels drained by her 5-year-old's extreme emotional reactions to even the most minor disappointments. While she and her husband encourage both their children to express all their feelings, their son has recently begun "to jump to a level 100 in tears the instant he gets frustrated or isn't given what he wants." His sobbing, screaming, and …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - What is parenting for sanity + social change? - Self-care to then care for our kids - Transition issues - our expectations vs lack of skills - Parent struggling to leave 8 mo with caregiver - …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 8 mo awake 2 hrs in middle of night - 2.5 yo won't stay in bed or room, runs out - How to help regulate kids' nervous systems - Morning routine total chaos, won't get ready - The power of the …
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast where we use the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - 8 yo despises and harms 4 yo sibling - Spirited kid has trouble making friends because they are so extroverted + loud - Parent struggles with staying the course with respectful parenting when …
 
A parent is concerned and torn about her 18-month-old daughter's swim lessons, because the toddler cries the entire time. This mom says: “I struggle with giving her bodily autonomy and respect while forcing her to take swim classes for her safety.” She is hoping Janet can help her reconcile her conflicted feelings.Thanks again to Ritual Vitamins fo…
 
Janet consults with a parent who says she feels utterly exasperated by her two young boys’ difficult behaviors. While she has a clear image of the kind of gentle, empathetic parent she wants to be, she says she loses her patience more often than not, and at the end of the day feels like a failure. “I’m so tired of the chaos in my home,” she writes,…
 
Expecting a baby or have one under a year old? Check out our new course, Right From The Start, which we launched this week! Only a couple days left to sign up BEFORE Sunday March 28! Get support in 9 modules of succinct 15 minute videos covering topics such as sleeping, feeding, bathing, diapering, sib relationships, big feelings, independent play …
 
Bethany Saltman’s fascinating new book “Strange Situation: A Mother’s Journey into the Science of Attachment” recounts her personal, 10-year journey investigating the scientific theory of attachment. As a new mother, Bethany was afraid she simply “wasn’t enough” for her baby. Eventually, through intensive research and self-examination, she realized…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast through the rest of the year, using the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - How kids learn about how to use power responsibly - Why welcoming kids' resistance and big feelings is vital work - Kid w/ potty regressions, misbehaving at school - Kid…
 
A parent is stumped that her almost 4-year-old says ‘no’ to everything -- daily transitions like going to or from school, attending a birthday party, even receiving a gift. “Sometimes it is as simple as an emphatic no,” she writes. “And sometimes this increases to more of a tantrum with crying and lots of no, no, no.” While she acknowledges and des…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast, which consists of the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Rigid 5 yo and how to “coach them” - Kid always runs away with big feels - Spirited 2.5 yo won’t let parents touch her - The ways our kids learn about consent - The RESIST Approach vs CO…
 
Welcome back to our LIVE Q&A SERIES on the podcast, which consists of the audio from our weekly Instagram LIVE videos. A few of the topics we cover this episode: - Highly sensitive 10 yo struggling to socialize with friends - Aggressive 4 yo misbehaving constantly - 6 yo big feelings around moving - 9 yo struggling to adjust to new school - Parent …
 
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