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Today, I chat with my dear friend Mollie Birney, a clinical life coach, about how to utilize conflict in a relationship that is expansive and actually enhancing and -- dare I say -- enjoyable? Conflict is intended to be challenging but it doesn't have to feel like pulling teeth if we are able to own our shadows with confidence. If you struggle with…
 
I'm overjoyed and humbled to bring on someone hugely impactful in my life. Shayna Hiller is a yoga and tantric arts teacher living in Venice Beach, California. Shayna has also been a business coach for me in the past and is one of the reasons I developed the confidence to share my truth today. Amazingly, our paths have crossed again -- particularly…
 
I often observe people struggling with relationship anxiety attempt to focus on the good components of the relationship as a way to make themselves feel more good and certain around the relationship and feel less doubt. While gratitude practices in and of themselves are wonderful, there is a shadow side to it that can prevent you from having the br…
 
This podcast episode was recorded on Instagram live after I was inspired by a conversation with a client, where she and I discussed the worst places to find relationship advice and why -- and where to find good relationship advice instead. Great news! Relationship Anxiety Alchemist, our flagship self-study course on dismantling relationship anxiety…
 
Episode 59 of the 'Round The Archives' podcast sees Martin taking a personal voyage through Carl Sagan's 'Cosmos'.Warren clocks on for a 'Graveyard Shift', part of the series 'Circle Of Fear', then Paul & Toppie embark on the plane to 'Fantasy Island'.Finally Lisa & Andrew perform some television archaeology as they celebrate 'Time Team'.That's all…
 
Have you formed an alliance with society/family/friends or with your partner? In this episode, Chelsea Horton, Relationship Anxiety Specialist and dance therapist, joins me on IG live as we explain what's really happening when we feel embarrassed by our partner's imperfections in public. We also share what you can do to feel more at ease around thi…
 
I’m so thrilled to introduce Sheridan Ruth to our community at Anxious Love Coach. She is a fantastic yoga therapist, meditation teacher, and embodiment coach with her own experience with relationship anxiety. We’ve brought her on as a co-coach to support us in our client outreach and working in our deeply immersive and transformative programs. In …
 
In this episode, I connect with our client Megan, who has been with her high school sweetheart for many years. You may have heard me say that through this work we often discover our doubts about our relationships have nothing to do with the relationship and everything to do with self-trust. Listen to Megan's story to learn what she learned was unde…
 
I'm honored to bring my aunt, Diane Sigala, onto Anxious Love Coach today. In the throes of relationship anxiety, my aunt was a regular phone call I made to help me understand relationships (and men!) better. This is a delicious and sweet episode where I ask her to share the things that were helpful to me back in the darker days. I know you'll love…
 
Episode 58 of the 'Round The Archives' podcast sees the Summer Winos discussing their new book about the early days of 'Last Of The Summer Wine'.Warren considers the time that 'Kolchak : The Night Stalker' encountered a werewolf on a cruise ship, then Paul and Nick tune into some local radio with 'Shoestring'.Finally Lisa & Andrew find themselves i…
 
If your partner is going through a dark phase and isn't able to be your rock, it's challenging to maintain an erotic connection or spark. If you're in the thick of this, there's hope-- and you're going to want to listen to this raw deep dive with my dear friend Luci Lampe. Luci Lampe is a mom of 4, sexual empowerment & mindset coach, award-winning …
 
This is a juicy one and very humbling. In this episode, I chat with my friend Mollie Birney, a clinical life coach, about the difference between autonomy-respecting boundaries and manipulative boundaries, how to know if you're showing up with an agenda in your boundary-setting, and what to do instead to create a culture of autonomy and safety in yo…
 
Have you ever been disgusted by your partner being cute with you? This episode might not be for everyone -- but if you and your partner adore cute things and sometimes you start wishing things got more "intellectual" or "adult-like", I've put a lot of thought into this topic to give you some perspective on why this might be the case and what you ca…
 
Episode 57 of the 'Round The Archives' podcast sees Warren taking a look at the 1988 'ScreenPlay' production 'The Black & Blue Lamp'.Paul and Nick examine Terry Nation's mid 70s series 'Survivors', a show that seems even more relevant today.And Lisa & Andrew do some sleight of hand to talk about 'David Nixon's Magic Box'.That's all in Episode 57 of…
 
This one comes deep from personal, local, and recent experience from my heart. When we are feeling starved in multiple aspects of our lives, it's common to look to our partners to fill in the gaps. In this episode, I make a point to help you identify why you might be projecting your emotional hunger into your relationship, what to do instead, and a…
 
Episode 56 of the 'Round The Archives' podcast sees Martin & Warren teaming up to look at the Basil Rathbone 'Sherlock Holmes' films.We examine 'Neighbours' from a family perspective as Paul is joined by his mum Pat to discuss their memories of the show.And Lisa & Andrew consider the various incarnations of Worzel & Saucy Nancy, particularly the 19…
 
When your partner is operating at what we might call a "low vibe," it's only natural our attraction will wane for the time being. We might take the lack of attraction we feel in that circumstance at face value and panic about whether we're in the right relationship! In this episode, I jump on TikTok Live (@anxiouslovecoach) to share where to re-rou…
 
Every worry you're "settling" if you stay with your partner? You're not alone: this thought process isn't your fault and it has good reason for being there-- but there are a ton of ways it isn't helpful when looking at relationships, especially for someone that struggles with relationship OCD. In this episode, we will debunk the myth of "settling" …
 
Episode 55 of the 'Round The Archives' podcast sees us travel back in time to Christmas Eve 1970 for a festive edition of 'Play School'.Martin shares some memories of Christmas Past, then Ben plugs his new book about the 1990s festive TV schedules 'I Was Bored On Christmas Day'.(Don't forget to visit https://benbakerbooks.org/ for more details)Paul…
 
There is one thing that so many people with relationship anxiety struggle to give themselves... and in this episode, I cover exactly that while hopping live in my exclusive Facebook group, The Anxious Love Coach Collective -- link to join in the show notes. HAPPY HOLIDAYS, and I hope this podcast has been helpful for you. If you'd like to apply to …
 
I tried to break up multiple times with both my long-term partners of whom I experienced ROCD with -- and a hard majority of those "pull-aways" happened around the holidays. Back then the timing seemed so random, but I see today something much deeper was going on and that this emotional inner turmoil was actually a pattern in hindsight. In this epi…
 
Fawn or Faun?! lol Join us as we journey Further Up into the World of Narnia and Look for Lewis. In Episode #16, we meet Mr. Tumnus and learn about this new world of Narnia :) Thank you for joining us on this adventure and remember... Aslan Moves! Lewis Letters: Send us the story of how you discovered the world of Narnia! Via Wardrobe? Jump through…
 
Episode 54 of the 'Round The Archives' podcast sees Andy and Martin from 'The A To Z Of UK TV Drama' podcast telling us that 'A is for Abineri', then Andrew & Lisa follow Herne The Hunter into the forest to encounter the first 'Robin Of Sherwood'.Paul and Toppie (stars of such shows as 'The Shy Life Podcast', 'The Smellcast' and 'Matinee Minutiae')…
 
A common theme with relationship anxiety is the fierce struggle for reconciliation between wanting to be independent and dependent. Tune in with my friend Mollie Birney, a clinical coach with an eye for mental health, as we dive into the truth about peoples' relationships to independence and how it can be a trauma response that blocks us from exper…
 
You’re not attracted to a partner you control — and controlling behavior is a common way to avoid feeling “out of control.” However, it’s a huge contributor to feelings of dissatisfaction and disgust in relationship and ROCD. In this episode, I cover how to identify when we’re stepping into controlling behaviors, how to have compassion for ourselve…
 
Episode 53 of the 'Round The Archives' podcast sees us paying tribute to Diana Rigg with a look at two episodes of 'The Avengers', namely 'A Touch Of Brimstone' and 'Epic'.Paul tells us of some Scary Things, then Simon and Ken from 'The ExtonMoss Experiment' go 'Out Of This World' to meet a 'Little Lost Robot'.There are more Scary Things from Marti…
 
Let's go further in! Join us as we journey Further Up into the World of Narnia and Look for Lewis. In Episode #15, we meet Professor Kirke and wander into a wardrobe :) Thank you for joining us on this adventure and remember... Aslan Moves! Lewis Letters: Send us the story of how you discovered the world of Narnia! Via Wardrobe? Jump through a Pain…
 
"I threw some spaghetti at Diana Rigg!"We catch up with the 'Round The Archives' gang to discuss Diana Rigg and Frank Windsor as well as going through what they've been watching recently.Featuring Warren Cummings, Martin Holmes, Paul Chandler, Andrew Trowbridge and Lisa Parker.Music by Dan Tate and Paul Chandler.Cover art and editing by Martin Holm…
 
Episode 52 of the 'Round The Archives' podcast sees Martin delving into the shady world of spies and 'The Sandbaggers'.We explore the world of local radio with 'The Kit Curran Radio Show' then Martin returns for some brief thoughts on 'Dangerman'.Finally, Nick & Paul return to conclude their in-depth look at 'Armchair Thriller'.That's all in Episod…
 
In this episode, I interview one of my incredible coaching and meditation clients, Shannon, who came to me struggling with Relationship OCD/Relationship Anxiety. She shares what her awakening process looked like without the fluff, and the new wisdom she has acquired. She also gives warm encouragement and suggestions for those who are in the swamp o…
 
"Harry Sullivan's waving at me!"Warren joins us as a Very Special Guest to talk about how sitting on a particular bus seat on a certain day was the first step in an incredible journey into the mysterious worlds of 'Doctor Who' fandom...Featuring Warren Cummings, Martin Holmes, Paul Chandler, Andrew Trowbridge and a little bit of Lisa Parker.Music b…
 
One of my biggest fears in the past was that I'd be perceived as a narcissist. I resorted to frequent people-pleasing so people could think I was "good" in order to try and prevent this. Problem is, it led me to being more resentful and self-centered anyway around people I loved (including my partner). People tell you "if you worry you're a narciss…
 
Episode 51 sees us welcome back Simon and Ken from 'The ExtonMoss Experiment' podcast as they take a look at the 'Out Of The Unknown' story 'The Machine Stops'.Martin has the technology to examine in detail the title sequence for 'The Six Million Dollar Man', then Nick and Paul talk about the first season of 'Armchair Thriller'.Finally, we stay ale…
 
'The Making Of Round The Archives'To round off the celebrations for the 50th episode of 'Round The Archives', it's confession time as Paul and Martin join us to discuss The Making Of RTA.Featuring Lisa Parker, Andrew Trowbridge, Paul Chandler and Martin Holmes.Music by Dan Tate and Paul Chandler.Cover art and editing by Martin Holmes.…
 
When I was in the thick of Relationship Anxiety, comments like: "maybe you should leave" "maybe he's just not the right person for you" "you're young, maybe you just need to explore" were enough to send me into a gut-wrenching spiral of anxiety. In this episode, I get to the root of why this is so painful and also how you can respond.…
 
Episode 50B sees us continuing our Golden Anniversary celebrations with Martin's look at the final episode of 'Quatermass And The Pit'.Warren casts a critical eye over early 70s architecture with 'Nairn Across Britain', then Toppie and Paul invite us to spend some time visiting Rod Serling's 'Night Gallery'.Finally, we revisit some of Alan Bennett'…
 
"Death by Space Pirates!"Formats galore as the 'Round The Archives' crew gather to discuss black-and-white telly versus colour, 525- and 625-lines, VHS, DVD, picture quality in general and the more unlikely dangers one might face when watching 'The Space Pirates' Episode Two...Featuring Paul Chandler, Nick Goodman, Martin Holmes and Andrew Trowbrid…
 
Episode 50A sees us starting our Golden Anniversary celebrations with a '50 Episode' quiz provided by Ben.Andy P stays with the golden theme as he takes at look at the 1983 BBC serial 'The Cleopatras' written by Philip Mackie and produced by Guy Slater.Next we travel 'Up Pompeii' to hang out with Frankie Howerd as Lurcio, forever failing to finish …
 
When you're experiencing relationship anxiety, hearing "trust your gut" or "listen to your intuition" can be one of the most triggering things you can hear. Is your intuition telling you to leave, or is it ROCD? Tune in with Chelsea Joy Horton, OCD specialist with her masters in dance movement therapy and counseling. Together we share the more accu…
 
"Dropping coffee on my laptop..."Special guest Andy P joins us along with Martin & Paul to discuss 'An A To Z Of UK TV Drama' and 'The Shy Life Podcast', giving us some behind-the-scenes insight into the making of their shows.Featuring Paul Chandler, Martin Holmes, Andy Priestner and Andrew Trowbridge.Music by Dan Tate and Paul Chandler.Cover art a…
 
We're talking what to do if your relationship anxiety causes you to be attracted to someone else! "If you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you truly loved the first, you wouldn't have fallen in love with the second." I dissected this popular quote (which is loaded) by Johnny Depp over on Instagram live and give you st…
 
Hello Friends! Join us as we journey Further Up into the World of Narnia and Look for Lewis. In Episode #14, we learn that apples can be well thrown and that this is just the beginning of the story :) Thank you for joining us on this adventure and remember... Aslan Moves! Lewis Letters: Send us the story of how you discovered the world of Narnia! V…
 
"Lost in Chiswick with Henry Woolf..."We discuss some of our favourite actors and their notable roles including Russell Hunter, Brian Blessed, Bernard Hepton, Joanna Lumley and Peter Davison.Featuring Paul Chandler, Martin Holmes, Nick Goodman, Lisa Parker and Andrew Trowbridge.Music by Dan Tate and Paul Chandler.Cover art and editing by Martin Hol…
 
"A whole universe of Gordon Gostelow!"Our 'What Have You Been Watching?' discussion continues, taking us on a wander through the worlds of 'Lovejoy', 'The Frighteners', 'Tales Of The Unexpected', 'Crown Court', 'The Bionic Woman' , 'The Golden Girls' and lots more.This episode even boasts some astonishingly accurate impressions of Gordon Gostelow, …
 
Hello Friends! Join us as we journey Further Up into the World of Narnia and Look for Lewis. In Episode #13, we meet someone unexpected. Don't worry we can handle it - there will always be a way through. Thank you for joining us on this adventure and remember... Aslan Moves! Lewis Letters: Send us the story of how you discovered the world of Narnia…
 
Episode 49 sees us telling many stories of television's past as Martin remembers 'Jackanory' and we take a trip to 'Crown Court' where this week's case concerns 'The Most Expensive Steak In The World'.Toppie shares his memories of Bill Bixby as 'The Magician' and Martin goes on 'The Wild Hunt' for Episode Five of 'Quatermass And The Pit'.Finally, P…
 
The question 'What Have You Been Watching?' leads to discussion of such well-known shows as 'Dynasty', 'Doctor Who', 'Crime Island' and 'Fights In Lilliput'...Featuring Paul Chandler, Martin Holmes and Andrew Trowbridge.Music by Dan Tate and Paul Chandler.Cover art and editing by Martin Holmes.By Round The Archives
 
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