110: First Date Sex + Being Monogamish with Alexa Bowditch


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When you’re sex positive + have a proclivity towards alternative styles of sex + relating, how do you date in the modern, mainstream world? That Sex Chick, Alexa Bowditch gives us insights into how to introduce ideas of sexual exploration + non-traditional relationship styles in your dating life to support your finding your partner.

We talk about the unique challenges of dating as a sex expert, tips about how to explore BDSM + kink for the first time in a relationship, + advice for starting the path towards non-traditional relating.

In this episode you’ll hear:

  • Introducing alt sex + non-traditional relationship desires to a partner who has never had the experience
  • How kink can be a powerful practice for transmuting pain into pleasure
  • What it’s like dating as a sex educator + expert
  • Why differences in sexual preferences + styles doesn’t need to mean the end of a relationship
  • The how having difference + individuality in relationships contributes to polarity + attraction
  • Qualities + skills needed for helping your partner move through sexual shame
  • Skills to consider to avoid becoming “the teacher” in a relationship + maintaining a partnership



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Alexa is a sex and relationship by design coach and sex coach business mentor on a mission to reform sex education and sexuality expression across the globe. She is from the deep south of Louisiana and if anyone knows how to bust through taboos regarding sex, it’s her. She is known as @thatsexchick across social media and is the founder of That Sex Group, a NY Times featured community with love, sex & relationships as the central focus. Alexa speaks and teaches internationally on the subjects. You can find out more about her at thatsexchick.com


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