Is Our Love Stoya (Pt. 1)


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By Lola Jean and Stephen Penta, Lola Jean, and Stephen Penta. Discovered by Player FM and our community — copyright is owned by the publisher, not Player FM, and audio is streamed directly from their servers. Hit the Subscribe button to track updates in Player FM, or paste the feed URL into other podcast apps.

Stoya. A person who needs no introduction but we’re going to attempt it anyway. An internationally celebrated author, activist, actress & advocate for sex worker’s rights. An introverted cat lover, a next level book nerd, and a fearless caller of bullshit. An endless seeker of the authentic & creator of sexually explicit media in all forms. Stoya’s famously photogenic asshole could be identified in a line-up by millions of porn viewers… and that’s made her life simultaneously fascinating and fucking traumatizing. Stephen and Stoya met and fell in love in their 20s. That relationship would come to have strange rippling effects on both of their lives.

The next two episodes of Is Our Love ____? is a uniquely intimate conversation between ex’s about mutual shared history, sex, love, life, and how we can all keep trying to improve.

If you'd like advice on sex, love, or relationships you can always email us at ... (PS it's worth reminding that you can also email Stoya & her advice column 'How To Do It' at

You can find Stoya's explicit media and first 2 issues at Our crossover Podcast episode on Unicorns will be part of the upcoming issue #3. You can also follow her @stoya on twitter and instagram.

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The recurring musical theme this episode is Innerpartysystem "This Empty Love," (The video mentioned still exists on youtube) Our official theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at

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