Is Our Love the Fetishization of Asian Women?


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This week we boldly go where two white podcasters dare not tread... for good reason. Inspired by a listener question regarding the fetishization of her race within her dating pursuits, Stephen and Lola try their best not to “white savior” by bringing in roommates and friends Yuko and Rachel. Both Yuko and Rachel grew up in wildly different parts of the US and have had wildly different experiences as asian women. Get ready to tighten your butthole as we discuss wildly uncomfortable, yet necessary conversations from the stereotypical roles of Asian women in porn, to the difference between having a ‘type’ and fetishizing a race. Uncomfortable yet?

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